IMPORTANCE OF WRITING DIARY

At the beginning, I didn’t know the importance of writing a dairy. I thought why people write a diary. I had an opinion that everyday there won’t be anything to write day to day. I thought that only especial moment or events should be written. It’s like taking a photo of especial moment. People won’t take photo every day.  Writing a diary was like that for me.  But I was wrong.

It has been more than one year; I have started writing a dairy. My opinion changed after that.  I found maintaining a dairy is one of the powerful tools.  Writing diary has changed my way of living. It has helped me to overcome my stress and anxiety. When I am happy, I write a diary. When I am sad, I write diary. Writing dairy makes me relax. It gives me pleasure. Whatever, comes in my mind, I portray in the diary.

On the other hand, I don’t hesitate to write the diary. I don’t fear of the language. I know that I don’t have proper Nepali writing but I still write in Nepali. I write in Nepali because I have poor writing. Writing dairy had helped me to improve my writing skills. There is no fear of writing because diary is my personal. It concerned about the privacy.

While writing diary, I am writing about my experience. There are so many experiences that one person have. During one and half year, I had many experiences. Day to day experience has taught me a lot. Everyday has new thing to learn. After writing diary, I knew about it.  I was in illusion that every day there won’t be anything to write but there is.  If there isn’t anything to write anything, I write poems or stories that come in my mind. It gives a pleasure and comfortable.

Writing diary has helped me to know myself and my abilities. It proved that nobody knows better than oneself. Furthermore, it has become my motivation Every now and then I’ll set myself some new goals to work towards. Looking back and ticking off those accomplishments is nothing short of completely rewarding, and by visualizing my goals on paper I’m able to see the path I need to take to achieve them.

Lastly, it gives reflection. Whenever, I see my diary, I feel that many incidents had occurred in my life. Some memories gives me smile and whereas some memories gives different emotions.  On the other words, it is known as emotional intelligent.

So, in conclusion, writing diary has given me the following:

•  I have known myself 
• I have my own way of expressing    
• I have and will work through hard choices
•  I have develop emotional intimacy
•  I have felt better when I put thoughts and feelings on paper
•  I have build memories on paper
•  I have created new ideas
• I have created a map that holds secrets to my own evolution