LEANING ON WALLS BUT NOT ON PEOPLE: THE DANCE BETWEEN PHYSICAL COMFORT AND EMOTIONAL VULNERABILITY
In busy streets, crowded gatherings, or quiet corners, we often see people leaning against walls. They are resting their tired bodies and finding a moment of physical support. Yet, many of these same people hesitate to lean on others for emotional comfort. This contrast between seeking physical support and resisting emotional vulnerability reveals a deep story about how we connect and protect ourselves. Leaning on a wall is easy. It requires no words or explanations. The wall does not judge, argue, or demand. It provides a steady, unchanging presence. In contrast, leaning on people—sharing our fears, asking for help, and showing our insecurities—takes courage and trust. It makes us vulnerable, opening us to potential rejection or misunderstanding. In Nepali society, where emotional restraint often blends with social expectations, this dynamic is especially clear. Cultural norms promote resilience, patience, and keeping personal struggles private to avoid burdening others or...