WHY WE DON’T TALK WHILE EATING WITH STRANGERS
Sharing a meal is often seen as one of the most intimate social acts—a space where bonds are forged, stories exchanged, and warmth shared. Yet, paradoxically, when sitting down to eat with strangers, a distinct silence often falls over the table. The absence of conversation in these moments speaks to deeper cultural norms, social discomforts, and unspoken boundaries that shape our interactions. In many Nepali settings, eating together traditionally signifies trust, familiarity, and mutual respect. It is a time when people let down their guards, share not just food but experiences, and engage in heartfelt exchange. When the diners are strangers, however, the dynamics shift. Without shared history or common ground, conversation can feel risky or superficial, and silence becomes a safer, more respectful choice. This silence is not simply awkwardness or shyness. It is a social negotiation—a way to maintain personal boundaries while navigating unfamiliar company. Talking while eating ...