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PUBLIC TRANSPORT PERSONAS: WHO WE BECOME INSIDE A MICROBUS

There is a quiet theater that unfolds every day on the roads of Nepal, staged not in auditoriums but inside the tightly packed, ever-rattling microbuses that zip and zigzag through our cities. Here, in this moving capsule of chaos, dust, and shared breath, people assume roles they didn’t audition for. They don’t speak much, but they perform. Each microbus is a small society—and every passenger, an actor negotiating their place in it. The moment we step in, we shed part of who we are outside. The loud becomes restrained. The carefree becomes cautious. The confident student with headphones transforms into someone suddenly obsessed with finding the right amount of knee-space. A mother becomes a protector, shielding her child from elbows and sudden brakes. A man in a crisp office shirt tucks in his ego to fit between two strangers. We become versions of ourselves edited for proximity. There is the Silent Negotiator —the one who won’t ask for the window seat but will quietly hover i...

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